If you’ve been following me for a while, you already know my weakness: shoes. They’ve always been the accessory I gravitate toward first, and over the years, I’ve built a collection that I’m both proud of and maybe a little embarrassed by (but only a little). And because I share my outfits often, one of the questions I get asked most is, unsurprisingly, about shoes.
Should you invest in this style versus that one? Are certain designer heels really worth the price? How do you keep them looking new after years of wear? The questions run the gamut, and I figured it was about time I put everything in one place. So, let’s talk shoes—what I love, what I recommend, and why.
The Manolo Blahnik BBs: A Classic for a Reason
Let’s start with a favorite that always sparks conversation: the Manolo Blahnik BBs. Out of all the “fancier” heels in my collection—the ones I consider timeless rather than trendy—these are hands down the most comfortable. I own them in the 4-inch heel height, and while that might sound daunting, they’re surprisingly wearable.
Unlike most heels that have you secretly plotting your exit strategy two hours into an event, the BBs are shoes you can realistically wear without immediately regretting your life choices. To be clear, if you’re a commuting New Yorker (or just someone who’s on their feet constantly), a backup pair of flats is always smart. But for dinners, nights out, or events where you’re mostly standing and chatting, these hold up beautifully.
What I love most is how versatile they are. While I don’t mind pairing them with dresses or skirts, I personally think they shine best with jeans. There’s something so effortlessly chic about a classic pointed toe peeking out from under denim—it’s understated, but it instantly makes the whole look feel elevated.
A Pop of Red (and the Grey I Couldn’t Resist)
My first pair was in red, and they remain one of my most-worn statement heels to this day. Red can be surprisingly versatile—it works as a neutral in my wardrobe more often than you’d expect, adding just the right pop to otherwise simple outfits.
For months (okay, maybe longer), I had my eye on the grey pair for fall. I debated, hesitated, told myself I didn’t “need” them… and then finally caved. And let me tell you: no regrets. They’ve been one of my smartest purchases. The neutral tone makes them endlessly wearable, and I find myself reaching for them constantly. Honestly, I wish I had just taken the plunge sooner.
Why These Are Worth the Investment
Designer shoes can be intimidating, especially when you’re weighing the cost against the number of times you’ll realistically wear them. But here’s why I think the BBs are worth it:
- Timeless design. The pointed toe, the sleek silhouette, the simple elegance—they’ll never look dated.
- Surprising comfort. They’re not sneakers, of course, but compared to other designer heels, they’re in a league of their own.
- Wardrobe versatility. From denim to dresses, they work across so many outfits, making them a cost-per-wear win.
When it comes to investment pieces, I always ask myself: will I still be wearing this five years from now? With these, the answer is a definite yes.
The Bigger Shoe Picture
Of course, the BBs are just one part of my collection. I also have more trend-driven pairs that are fun for a season or two, but those I view as “disposable” shoes—ones I don’t mind moving on from when the moment passes. That’s why I believe in having a balance: a few high-quality classics that anchor your wardrobe, mixed in with more affordable, of-the-moment styles that keep things fun and current.
It’s the same philosophy I use with handbags, coats, and even jewelry: invest in the pieces that will stand the test of time, and let yourself play with the rest.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, shoes should bring you joy. Whether it’s the thrill of slipping into a pair of sky-high Manolos or the ease of sliding on your favorite sneakers, the right pair has the power to transform how you feel in an outfit. For me, the BBs have been that perfect blend of style and practicality—a pair I know I’ll continue to lean on for years.
And now, I’d love to know: what’s the shoe in your closet that you always reach for? The one that makes you feel put together, no matter what you’re wearing?
Because while collections may vary, I think every shoe lover has that one pair that feels like magic.
