New York has always been a city that reinvents itself, and after the past year, that resilience feels stronger than ever. The energy is slowly creeping back—restaurants are buzzing again, hotels are filling their lobbies with chatter, and while the “for rent” signs haven’t disappeared entirely, there’s a renewed sense of optimism in the air. And honestly, what’s New York without optimism?
That being said, this isn’t an essay on the city’s recovery. This is about something far more fun: planning the perfect night out in New York.
Recently, a couple of my girlfriends and I—moms, all of us, and therefore perpetually tired—decided that simply going to dinner and heading back home wasn’t enough. We wanted to go big: a beautiful hotel, drinks before we even left the room, music playing while we got ready together, and then a proper dinner out. The kind of evening that reminds you New York is still very much that city.
Of course, being a little out of the loop, I did what I always do: I asked all of you for your recommendations. And as always, you delivered. Below, I’ve rounded up the hotel-and-dinner pairings that came up again and again—tried-and-true favorites that guarantee a night to remember.
Williamsburg Escapes
The William Vale + Leuca or Lilia
The William Vale is a favorite for anyone who loves sleek design and unbeatable skyline views. Even if you never leave the rooftop, it feels like an event in itself. Pair that with dinner at Leuca (rustic Italian comfort food at its best) or Lilia (arguably one of the hardest reservations in the city, and worth every bit of hype), and you’ve got Williamsburg at its finest. If you’re in the mood for a little wellness the next morning, book some time at Bathhouse, the chicest take on a spa day Brooklyn has to offer.
The Wythe + Lilia + Le Croc
Another Williamsburg gem, The Wythe offers old-world character with modern charm, not to mention views that make you want to linger. After dinner at Lilia, stroll over for cocktails at Le Croc, where the atmosphere leans sexy and understated. If you’re staying the night, don’t skip breakfast at Chez Mante. The pancakes are legendary, and exactly what you’ll want after a late night out.
Downtown Chic
The Greenwich Hotel + Locanda Verde or Bar Pisellino
The Greenwich is one of those hotels that makes you feel like you’re in on a secret. It’s warm, understated, and effortlessly luxurious. Drinks at Bar Pisellino set the tone (classic, elegant, and always lively), followed by dinner at Locanda Verde, Andrew Carmellini’s beloved Italian spot right in the hotel itself. For extra indulgence, book time in their serene spa. Or, if you’re up for venturing a bit further, the AIRE Ancient Baths nearby is an experience in its own right. If the night stretches on, the West Village is full of gems: American Bar (martinis done right) and L’Artusi (pasta heaven) are two favorites.
ModernHaus Soho + Jumpin Jacks Rooftop
For something new, the ModernHaus Soho is a fresh entry onto the scene. The design is modern yet warm, and the rooftop restaurant and bar have quickly become a draw. It’s the kind of place where you could easily never leave the hotel and still feel like you’ve had a quintessential New York night.
Uptown & Midtown Luxury
Equinox Hotel Hudson Yards + Estiatorio Milos or Electric Lemon
If sleek and cutting-edge is more your speed, the Equinox Hotel at Hudson Yards might be your match. Everything about it feels tailored for a stylish, health-conscious traveler. For dinner, Estiatorio Milos is a Mediterranean dream, while Electric Lemon offers seasonal plates and a rooftop that feels cinematic. And if you’re still standing afterward, The Edge is right there, with views that will quite literally take your breath away.
The Baccarat Hotel + Grand Salon
When only the most luxurious experience will do, there’s no topping The Baccarat Hotel. From the moment you walk in, it feels like stepping into a jewel box. Stay the night, dine at their Grand Salon, and indulge in the spa. Everything about it is over-the-top in the best possible way.
Across the River
One Brooklyn Bridge Hotel
As the weather warms, One Brooklyn Bridge becomes an especially appealing option. You’re right on the waterfront, with some of the best views of Manhattan at your doorstep. Dinner here means you don’t even need to leave the property—perfect for a night that’s more about quality time with friends than navigating the city.
Final Thoughts
Planning a night out in New York is less about checking boxes and more about curating an experience that feels celebratory. Whether that means sipping martinis in the West Village, soaking in skyline views from a rooftop in Williamsburg, or indulging in Baccarat-level opulence, the city has no shortage of options.
For us, it’s about creating a night that feels indulgent, playful, and just a little out of the ordinary. A night where you don’t rush home after dinner but instead lean into all the little rituals that make New York feel magical.
And as always, if you have a favorite hotel-and-dinner pairing that I missed, drop it in the comments—I’d love to add it to the list. Because one thing is certain: in New York, there’s always room for another perfect night out.